Join Me in My Life's Journey

First name

Don

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

WHO AM I
I’m an upbeat, optimistic person who believes life is meant to be enjoyed and shared with someone special. My “live and let live” philosophy keeps things easygoing - no drama, just good energy and genuine connection. In a relationship, I’m affectionate, protective, and all-in on making my partner feel appreciated and loved. When life brings dark clouds, I’ll be the one holding the umbrella protecting you from the storm. My mindset and physical conditioning keep me active, curious, and engaged. I’ve lived a beautiful life, learned a lot along the way, and grown more humble with each blessing I’ve been given. Oh, and if you love animals, you’ve already found a kindred spirit.

MY BACKGROUND
I grew up with sand between my toes and salt in my hair, riding waves along the sun-drenched beaches of Southern California. After high school, I swapped surfboards for service and proudly joined the U.S. Air Force - a different kind of adventure, but one that taught me discipline, perspective, and gave me confidence. When my time in uniform ended, I followed my curiosity about people and earned degrees in Psychology, which led me to careers in both academia and business. These days, I’ve traded meetings for margaritas as I channel my inner Jimmy Buffett - soaking up the sun, chasing new adventures, and savoring the simple joy of living life on my own terms. It’s been one incredible ride.

SO, DO WE DANCE TO THE SAME DRUMMER…
I love spending quality time getting to know someone, whether we’re lost in a deep conversation, sharing a new adventure, or simply enjoying each other’s company in a quiet moment. I’m drawn to open-minded, genuine people who lead with kindness and live without judgment. A good sense of humor is a must. Life’s too short to take this madness seriously! Staying active in both body and mind keeps me centered, and I’d love a partner who feels the same, someone who enjoys staying curious, engaged, and active. I’m looking for a real connection built on fun, friendship, passion, and all the beautiful chaos in between. I’m not searching for someone to “fix” me. I’ve spent a lifetime transforming into who I am and am quite happy with the "Me" I have become. I have a lot to share, and even more I’d love to discover with the right person. Care to join me?

Sign

Virgo

My Body Type Is

Fit

My Height Is

5' 10 (1.78 m)

My Eyes Are

Hazel

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Widowed

I Have Kids

Yes - Sometimes At Home

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Belly Button

Body Art

Other

My Hair Is

Grey

I Have One Or More Of These

Cat, Dog

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Retired

My Speciality Is

Retired

My Job Title Is

CEO of Retirement

I Make This Much In A Year

$100,000USD To $150,000USD

I Live

With Pet(s)

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Nerd

My Social Behavior Is

Comedic, Friendly, Reserved

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Arts & Crafts, Computers, Cooking, Exercising, Learning, Music, Religion / Spirituality

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Going To A Concert, Relaxing, Trying New Things

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Anywhere where we can enjoy food and drink and learn about each other.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

I Attend Services

Never

My Political Views Are

Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

Become a Jimmy Buffet wannabe roaming the beaches. Continuing to grow mentally, physically and spiritually.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Documentaries, Movies

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Comedy, Drama

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Blues, Classical, Folk, Jazz, New age, Rock

When I Read, I Always Read

Business, Computers, Fiction, Health, News, Philosophy, Political, Supernatural, Science, Science Fiction, I'm An Author

My Idea Of Fun Is

Roam the beaches, kayaking, attending festivals, enjoying a new or favorite restaurant, music like bands on the beach and Symphony and cover bands at Saenger.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Empathy, Intelligence, Sensitivity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

What Do You Look For?

Intelligent, emotionally sensitive, loving/affectionate and mature. Also, good sense of humor is a must (No rolling your eyes when I try to be witty).

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Date, Intimate, Committed